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When encountering the Boar, we
sense his or her quiet sincerity and purity. The Boar is so honest that he
feels guilty for the slightest error, and he is more indulgent and forgiving
of others than he is of himself. He is without artifice or pretense, and
dislikes forcing himself on others or being the center of attention. Chivalrous,
gallant, obliging, scrupulous to a fault, the Boar is naive, innocent,
confident, and defenseless. He allows himself to be duped easily, accepts
his own faults calmly, and those of others with tolerant understanding. He
is incredibly sincere, almost to the point of doing himself harm, and always
disarmed by the bad faith of others. He lies rarely, and then only to defend
himself. Powerless against hypocrisy, he will often crucify himself in an
attempt to justify his actions. He is an absolutely straight dealer and it's
very rarely that he will accept a compromise. Ironically, though the Boar
believes without question whatever anyone tells him, he is always finding it
necessary to produce proof of what he himself asserts!
People born in the Year of the
Boar have a taste for la dolce vita. Possessing a
strong sense of luxury, they can be extravagant and take great pleasure in
pampering themselves and their loved ones; they delight in the stimulation of
the senses. However, when they need to work they will get right to it. At
these times a half-hearted attitude just won't do; where they're concerned,
it's all or nothing.
The Boar is a splendid companion,
so much fun, and game for a risque evening. He
doesn't say much, but when he does decide to speak, suddenly the barriers
are down and nothing can stop him until the subject's exhausted.
Like the
Monkey, the Boar is intellectual,
a character with a great thirst for knowledge. He reads a lot, but reads
anything that happens to be around. Although he appears to be well read,
the Boar's knowledge is only superficial. Referring to this, a Japanese
proverb says that the Boar is "wide of face but narrow in the back."
The Boar is sensitive, caring,
and indulgent. Not only intelligent and cultured, the Boar also has a streak
of bawdiness and earthiness. Their various indulgences can verge on gluttony.
Unlike the conniving Machiavellian pigs of Animal Farm,
Chinese Pigs tend to be helpless and insecure. During fat spells they
suddenly lose all and are unable to defend themselves, much less attack
others. Boars in general are lucky but lazy.
Boars can be very practical,
logical and down to earth. They may at times be considered somewhat cool and
reserved because, blessed as they are with composure and self-control, they
don't usually allow emotion to cloud the issue. They are cheerful and love
company and social life. They find it very easy to make friends and also
seem to hang on to them for life. For them the Boar is capable of the greatest
sacrifices. He is extremely considerate of the chosen few who do merit his
affection. The women of this sign like nothing better than to make presents
for people and organize parties; they are marvelous hostesses.
Whatever his ambitions may be,
whatever the tasks and goals he has set himself, the Boar will do his duty
with all the strength he is capable of, and that same strength can be an
inner force to be reckoned with, a force that nothing can oppose. Once a
Boar has come to a decision, nothing can stop him from carrying it out. But
before he arrives at it, he spends ages weighing the pros and cons, which
sometimes gives the impression that he is indecisive. Nothing could be
further from the truth, but to make sure he is avoiding any possible
complications, he will sometimes ponder for so long that he destroys his own
case.
Untiring workers, Boars will
succeed in their careers, especially if they are their own boss. Because they
like to accumulate ancient objects and fine pictures, they might become art
dealers, specializing in antiquities. Their aim is to live in relative
affluence, both for themselves and their families, and to enjoy the pleasures
of life. Materially, the Boar will always have all the necessities of life,
regardless of his chosen career. Work and money in sufficient quantities
seems to gravitate his way without his having to make any particular effort.
People will help him all his life, and thanks to this help he will be able,
if he wishes, to reach the highest heights in the financial world.
Popular superstition in the
East says that people help him thus just to fatten him up so he will make a
better meal over the New Year. Because of this, the Boar may be overwary and
trust nobody. If the Boar's birthdate is a long time before the traditional
feasts, he will escape a lot of the disappointments in store for him. However,
the closer it is to the Asiatic New Year, the more he will be betrayed,
ridiculed, duped, and perhaps in the long run, eaten!
Though generally tolerant and
fairly placid people, when absolutely backed into a corner, Boars can turn
vicious. When they find that their friendship and good nature have been
seriously abused, they will give no quarter and that friendship will somewhat
unceremoniously be cut short. Perhaps they can be accused of exhibitionism,
of being flirtatious and even licentious at times, but there is no doubt that
Boars in general are very good sorts -- honest, decent, generous, supportive,
loyal to their friends, and thoroughly trustworthy.
The first phase of the Boar's
life will be relatively calm. During the second, every conceivable conjugal
problem will be visited upon him. But whatever his troubles, the Boar,
discreet and shy, will never ask anybody else for help; he'll try to get out
of the mess by himself. His reticence in this respect may do him harm, for
nobody will even suspect the torment he's going through.
The Passionate Boar
Above all else, Boars are
sensual, self-indulgent creatures. They adore anything that smacks of
physical pleasure, whether it is gorging themselves with sweetmeats or idling
a whole day away with their newfound heart throbs between their satin sheets.
Passionate by nature, some younger Boars could tend towards promiscuity while
some of the older ones could well become bawdy and lascivious. Unfortunately
for them, love seems somehow to befog many a Boar; when deeply smitten, their
emotions become rather transparent and they can become putty in the hands of
unscrupulous types who can induce them to behave quite out of character.
They may often be deceived, often disappointed, often made a fool of ... and
often loved. The female Pig makes a very good mother.
Boars are very family-oriented. Their attitude toward dating is often
open and direct and sometimes a little over eager. Once married, the Boar strives to maintain a harmonious,
lasting family relationship. They are loving and loyal to
their mates, and caring and considerate towards those they love. In any
close, intimate relationship it is friendship that the Boar will value most.
Settled with the right partner, these generous, warm hearted individuals
will enjoy happy and contented lives, developing their talents within that
supportive framework and devoting themselves completely to their family and
their loved ones. With their simplicity of soul and their sensual
appreciation of nature, the Boar always seeks the authentic and the true in
personal relationships.
The Boar would be well advised
to share his or her life with those born under the sign of the
Rabbit -- that's
the surest way of avoiding arguments. He must keep out of the clutches of
the Snake, who will make a complete
slave out of the Boar in no time, enmeshing him in his coils to the
extent that the poor Boar loses all power of movement. The
Ram shares his love for peace, beauty and a common aesthetic, which
makes for a happy relationship. Like
the Rabbit, the Tiger
and Rat are excellent partners for the
Boar, but the Monkey is not honest
enough for his taste and the Rooster may try to take advantage of him.
December is the month of the
Boar. The time of the Boar is from 9:00 p.m. to 10:59 p.m.; their direction
of orientation is north-northwest. The Boar's color is dark
blue.
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